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| dirk diggler | heres the question of the day. After having a short arguement with my wife came the question of shaved or unshaved? besides esthetics. its pure function. so tally up. clean or o'natural? - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 5:06pm | ||
| jay brown User Info... | shaved - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 5:33pm | ||
| lil' timmy | shaved! fuckin rights! - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 8:01pm | ||
| FuzzBuster | Its gotta go. - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 8:25pm | ||
| Mr. Hell User Info... | If it's clean and fresh, I'm a happy camper. - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 8:59pm | ||
| ROSS B AY User Info... | mohawk. or crotch mullet, one or the other. - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 10:00pm | ||
| Ike | It HAS to be shaved (or at least trimmed short), unless you like flossing with coarse hair. Here's a tip; offer to shave it for her in the bathtub. If you do it right, she will have you doing it weekly. - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 10:30pm | ||
| Wreaker of Havoc User Info... | Fuck that. Next she'll have you doing the dishes and taking out the garbage. Shave your beav Or Ill leave hahahaha - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 10:40pm | ||
| Ian | Hairy as FUCK! - Sun, 15 Dec 2002 10:45pm | ||
| spencerdood User Info... | Nothing worse than tasting the last guy who was in line. Keep the short and curlies to a minimum ladies. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 12:08am | ||
| Anonymous | Either. As long as is it is reasonably fresh and clean, I will fuck her with my tongue, with lots of enthusiasm. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 1:10am | ||
| MErection | WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAXXXXXXXXXXXX!!!!!!!! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 1:31am | ||
| Trailer Park Boy Julian | It don't matter... depends on the woman I suppose. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 3:00am | ||
| ROBOBEENER | WHO GIVES A FAT FLYING SHIT!?! PICK A HOLE AND FUG IT FUCKER! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 6:09am | ||
| Myka User Info... | shaved. that way, you can pretend she's 10! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 12:38pm | ||
| wronskian | or, just find a ten yr old girl. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 1:25pm | ||
| Myka User Info... | yeah, but then you gotta be finished before recess is over. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 1:53pm | ||
| kate | so, do you guys plan on shaving for us as well? why the fuck should we submit when youve got nothing worthwhile to offer in return? fair fucking trade boys - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 2:32pm | ||
| Bah | If that'd get me some shaved, get me the fuckin razor. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 4:24pm | ||
| Johnson | Hey Kate, no shave- no tongue!! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 4:29pm | ||
| helonwheels User Info... | Im with Kate for freakin sure! We like it tidy too. Hey how about a nice ball waxing for you boys? I'll smoke you like a kick ass dubie but first ya better do something about your pubie. UH HUH. Word. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 5:00pm | ||
| Sudz | As bald as Kojak's head! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 5:34pm | ||
| Anonymous | this is pathetic... - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 5:48pm | ||
| Trailer Park Boy Julian | It�s funny this topic came up when it did; it has been a topic of hot debate at my local watering hole lately. A few observations�. I was at a party this summer where the hostess and her anestician were talking about the whole waxing process etc. They spared us no detail and didn�t mince words� the 7-8 dudes privy to this conversation sat in stunned silence, occasionally shifting uncomfortably in their seats at the thought of the whole process. I could see that my two gay buddies were smirking� I found out later �cause they thought us hetero guys were such pussies for our fear of pubic hair. One of the gay guys even commented that it all sounded kinda pedophilic to him� which I can kinda see �cause pubic hair is indeed one of the things that distinguishes women from girls. As far as stats go, of my buddies that I have discussed this with I�d say it�s about 60 / 40 � 40% preferring shaved over natural. Generally, the guys who favour shaving etc are more on the bar star side of things, like fake tits, and prefer pro porn over amateur. Generally, the dudes who like a more natural appearance dislike clubs, hate fake boobs, and prefer amateur over pro porn. I have experienced and enjoyed many variations of women�s pubic stylings and gotta say frankly the bottom line is it don�t really matter. If I find a woman hot I pretty much wanna go down on her any time any place....pubes or no pubes. It�s my woman�s choice and I�ll be damn glad to go down on her when ever she wants it�. A word to the ladies � if a dude won�t go down on you - lose the chump!! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 6:26pm | ||
| Anonymous | write a book, asshole. noone likes to choke on a furburger. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 6:37pm | ||
| Ike | I'll never understand you bush lovers. I'm not saying that it should be completely shaved (I prefer that it isn't), but there is no way that having to burrow your tongue through a rainforest of hair, is as enjoyable as unobstructed access. Just keep it trimmed and really, offer to do it for her...you won't be sorry (as long as you have a steady hand and some moisturizing cream to massage in afterwards.) Long hair went out with the 80's. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 6:45pm | ||
| J-rawk | i HAAATTE fake tits but i also hate hair sandwitches .....WITCHES! - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 6:51pm | ||
| kate | am i the only one whos feeling very attracted to 'trailer park boy' right now? hes got a great fucking point. if im gonna shave, its going to be for me and no one else. end of story. if there is a compromise between partners it can be a great experience, but you start to realise that its like fooling around with a 9 year old. whatever turns your crank you sick motherfuckers. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 7:10pm | ||
| Ike | Sick Motherfuckers? First of all, for a woman to recieve oral pleasure, her partner's tongue is going internal. A man's partner goes external. If you're giving your partner head, you don't have to deal with hair if you don't want to. We, on the other hand, don't have a choice, unless you trim. Second, sex is about creativity, experimentation and doing your best to please your partner. If you trim your lawn and it pleases your partner, what is wrong with that? You please him, he pleases you. No one says you have to keep doing it, but don't expect him to keep going down on you if you don't. Its called MUTUAL SATISFACTION. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 8:34pm | ||
| kate | there is a choice. i choose not to fool around with people who are shallow enough not to go down on somebody because they dont like their bodies natural state. as for comprimise, that is nothing i'm unfamiliar with in my partnerships, which all function on the basis of respect. yer a little defensive, i'm just having a sense of humor in my 'snide' remarks. but i dont have anything to apologise for. shaved or not, i always enjoy going down on a woman because of who she is, and not for her asthetics. besides, if you think we have it easier giving you guys a blowjob, then yer an idiot. this should not be about who 'has it harder', if you want to engage in sexual activity with a person, it should be an experience that makes you happy. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 9:23pm | ||
| RAZOR | kate, you rawk my socks. rad, lets make our girlfriends feel insecure about dumb shit like body hair! anyone who said that to me would be gone in 4.4 seconds. - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 9:54pm | ||
| dirk diggler | ike, exactly. i WOULDNT expect her to keep up with the trimming. its entertaining. mutual satisfaction.... - Mon, 16 Dec 2002 11:23pm | ||
| Ike | Hi Kate - you're swell. Did I say giving a blowjob was easier? No, I merely said that you don't have hair to deal with; unless you deepthroat or like getting tea-bagged. I have no problem with accepting people's bodies the way they are. I simply prefer not to go down on a big pile of hair. I am entitled to my preference. Does it make me disrespectful of women? Does it make me an asshole? I think not. If I had mounds of hair up the length of my shaft, I would sure as shit shave it, if I knew that it would make things more enjoyable for my partner. But there isn't and it is a non issue. However, If I've been to the gym, or played hockey, or haven't showered in a couple of days, I will always have a shower before I jump into the sack with my wife. And if she asked me to shave, I would - BECAUSE SHE ASKED ME. The bottom line is that if you want to have a healty and loving relationship, you have to be open with each other to discuss and explore the things that turn the both of you on. It isn't about disrespect or arrogance - its about honesty and the desire to pleasure each other. Your remarks make my wife and women like her sound like some kind of sellouts for simply wanting to please their partners. That to me is more disrespectful than my telling her I like it when she trims. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 1:21am | ||
| Kate User Info... | i think im totally justified in being angry when people tell me what to do with my body. if you and your wife want to do it, then all the power to ya', enjoy the razorburn, hope yer face doesnt hurt to much from all the stubble. but think about what your doing. you are promoting shame about womens bodies in there natural state. your not the first, every fucking day we're told we're not fucking good enough, that our bodies need to be in a constant state of modification to be up to bloody standards. fuck it. im not buying into that shite. im happy.if you dont like it then maybe the problem lies within you. ~kate - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 2:13pm | ||
| Kelly | You have to keep in mind most of the guys who have posted are use to drunk 14 year olds. This place isn't exactly a good place to post when looking for a babysitter. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 2:31pm | ||
| Bah | Um Kate... Where exactly is anyone telling you that you have to shave/trim. Maybe I'm blind, but I'm not seeing it. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 2:35pm | ||
| Ratman | I grew up in southern california where most women shave it clean, have fake boobs and blond hair. I lived with that for 30 years. I come to live in Canada and notice a whole new race of woman. The women here are smarter and sexier mentaly. Canadian women rule!!!! no games, no bullshit, just real women. If california men knew what kind of women were here they would be in shock for the crap they've been putting up with all these years. I thought it was all white women, so I married a native girl. After living here awhile I realized it's only white california women, the ones in BC are Angels.. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 3:12pm | ||
| The log Lady | The log wants me to commend you on your discovery. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 3:25pm | ||
| Anonymous | It's kind of ironic how when I've discussed this with guys in the past they for the most part have said "shaved". But when I asked them if they shave, they have looked at me like I'm fucked. "I don't wanna take a razor to my nuts. What if I slipped?" That's how I feel about my parts too. Thus, I trim and don't shave. It's too much of a hassel and the upkeep is retarded. I have better things to do than to worry about a bit of stubble where people usually can't even see it. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 3:30pm | ||
| Ike | Yes, your anger is justified when someone tells you what to do with your body. I am not telling you what to do with your body; I have no interest in your body. I do not tell my wife what to do with her body. I have never told my wife - or any woman - that she is not good enough. I tell her that I love her body and I do - trimmed or un-trimmed. It just so happens that we are secure enough in our relationship to share our likes and desires without reading anything into it. We simply like to please each other. It is healthy and there is nothing wrong with that. This subject started with a person asking about other people's preferences. I responded and looking back, my initial response lacked tact and class. I apologize for that. However, I certainly do not intend to convey a message stating, "shame on you women who do not shave", I am simply stating my preference and why I have that preference. Trimming is not a bad thing and not trimming is not a bad thing. I have not said that there is shame in either and I do not wish to promote shame or modification. But don't try and tell me that being honest, creative and open with your partner doesn't make for a healthier relationship. And for future reference, don't try to pin all men into one class of thinking; doing do is purely ignorant. And to whoever posted the "Drunk 14 year old comment": May I suggest you pull your head out of your ass and not make assumptions with regard to people you don't know. Or at least base them on something. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 3:50pm | ||
| ROSS B AY User Info... | this may be the most mundane thing i've ever read. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 6:42pm | ||
| Wreaker of Havoc User Info... | Hey Ike, a wise man once said the following to me " You fucking idiots are judging this guy on what he types into a fucking message board. And if you or XXXXXXXXX have a personal bone to pick with each other, sort it out face to face instead of sharing your laundry with everyone else. Its just fucking pathetic." sound familiar? - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 6:54pm | ||
| Ike | Thats almost a good point Wreaker; I just don't think this topic is as volitile as was your's. I'm perfectly willing to leave it alone now though. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 7:44pm | ||
| J-rawk | i shave my balls sometimes cause it feels funny. the itch sux though - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 8:25pm | ||
| Stephanie | I find that if I part my muff hair in the middle and braid each side, my man can get at me with no problems. It looks pretty cool with a little stiff gel. Trimming is cool too though. - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 9:51pm | ||
| kate | thanks ike. i appreciate your response. i agree with what you said about compromise and am glad that you could also acknowledge where im coming from - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 10:26pm | ||
| Wreaker of Havoc User Info... | Ike I wasnt tryin to make a point, just breakin your balls - Tue, 17 Dec 2002 10:58pm | ||
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